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what time's cello tonight six oh god

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you'll have to run in paul

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pitbull's belly at 5 30. i can't split

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myself in two yeah okay chill that's

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fine

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it sounds so weird and old people say

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chill charming

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what time's the help arriving joanne is

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arriving at

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yup it's time to go grab your bags

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please oh god she's early

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can you go to the door i'm leaving now

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i'm already late hi i'm just about to

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knock

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him i'm joanne yes suzanne she'll be

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done in a minute

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thanks for helping us out we have quite

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expectations we just want her to be a

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little bit more

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confident in time for school anyway

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she has a hearing aid but she won't wear

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and i'm assuming there's no history of

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deafness on yours or your husband's side

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no we only found out she was deaf when

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she was three and a half

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which probably makes me a bloody awful

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mother but because she had a bit of

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hearing in her left ear that was

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overcompensating apparently that's

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common

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you're not an awful mother it's very

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common and you said she didn't qualify

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for a cochlear implant

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no which was a real blow and what's a

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communication like

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does she know any sign language or is it

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just lit reading just lit reading

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and her speech not good right well i'll

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probably start with a combination of

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speech and sign language just to see

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where she's at a lot of children respond

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really well to science because it's less

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i can't see that being the case libby

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follows what we're saying

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really well right well i'm sure she'll

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be fine then

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stop you idea i'm on the phone

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okay so make yourself at home sit down

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if you like liz

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is someone here to see you baby

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she's usually happy when she's watching

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tv she can be very difficult

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i mean sometimes we don't even know

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what's wrong with her is there any

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pattern to that happening

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oh no you know what they're like at this

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age my other two were the same

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well my exam starts in 25 minutes yes

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i'm coming seb's got his gcses and he

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got a stars in his mark so i better not

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make him late

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right you got my mobile number i'll be

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back in a few hours to see how you got

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has it been yeah good i told you she was

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yeah did she ever interact yeah she

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follows what we say really well

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trust me when libby's unhappy you know

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about it yeah i think i'll just try with

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some more interactive stuff i've got

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there is actually hello sorry yeah i've

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literally just walked in the door can i

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call you back in five minutes

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yeah yeah tomorrow i said yeah 8 30.

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okay don't worry bye sorry that was

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paul's mom she's a bloody nuisance oh

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it's fine um

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i'll i'll just bring some stuff to try

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with tomorrow does she like the park

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um well i haven't taken her since she

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was tiny but i'm sure she'd love it yeah

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it's only five minutes away

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yes all right great thanks joao okay bye

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um

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you moving in with olivier she's inside

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she's in a good mood libby i mean sue's

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never in a good mood

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oh hey libby oh sorry the door was open

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i thought you could have a busy day i'm

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so sorry i've got to shoot off again

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i've got to take paul's mum to the

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hospital oh no worries

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bye lips you'll be good see you later

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where's your bag

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let's get you some orange juice

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i just wondered how she'll get on with

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the sign language at school

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how do you mean well i'm not sure that

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know it well she needs to have an

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interpreter sat with her and extra

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and well i'm not trying to talk myself

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i'd be more than happy to help right

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i'm just wondering if we should be

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focusing more on the lip reading rather

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than the sign language

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well as it stands at the moment libby's

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going to struggle with speech so

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combination of sign language and lip

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reading will have the best results

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like i know it can feel a bit alien but

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the basics are actually really easy to

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might be a nice thing to do as a family

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i'm just not sure how doable that is at

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the moment pit pass ballet

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and sabre rehearses with the midland

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choir three times a week but we'll chat

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about it tomorrow

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i'll talk to paul okay great

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she's not hearing anything we're saying

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there you go oh sue don't forget that

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letter did you ever find your

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jacket yeah he's in the office

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she's signing is probably hungry

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can you pass me that butter i think it

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joe taught me some stuff

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that's cool yeah joe's doing a good job

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you know

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how many hairstyles you try she's not

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oh talk with the devil quick someone

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morning hello hello

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what is it liz what's she saying

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television no no i think she wants to

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look for treasure so

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i'll sort that out i'm gonna move on seb

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can you bring my briefcase please thank

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right so uh i'm on the bloody hospital

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i think i mentioned last night i'm gonna

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be a bit late again tonight more like

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six yeah that's fine we'll have lots of

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back again sorry to never leave i forgot

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hi i'm joanne i look after libby hello

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darling has you been good for you livy

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she's so bright is she

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yeah i think she'll be able to have a

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career in whatever she likes oh

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god bless her her granddad was deaf you

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i knew him really libby's granddad

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sorry do you mean paul's dad or sue's

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neither darling she's not paul's you

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i told him he should have left but he

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never listened to his mother

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when you have a child you want them to

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be normal you want them to be perfect

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she is normal so

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she's just deaf look i know it's your

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area of expertise but you must

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what i'm doing joe you must understand

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your time paul and i will arrange to go

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in and see the head

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hello hello you okay yeah now i'll find

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is everything okay it's just um

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but um paul and i have been talking and

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we think it's best that libs stops the

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why we think that speech therapy is a

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to take i've really i don't understand

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i know for school it's really important

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that she carries on with sign language

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we've actually been in to see the head

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number one there

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